[Originally my blog was called "Pedicure in Winter" but I have sinced changed it to "Clip Clop Mama."
So why, "pedicure in winter"? Well let me tell you a little about pedicures and me. I discovered pedicures a few years ago with a good friend of mine. If you haven't, I highly recommend you visit a nail salon near you for a pedicure A.S.A.P. A pedicure delivers all sorts of luxurious, delicious things for your mind and body in a short period of time for relatively little cost ($20-$30 typically). If the salon does not have the spa massage chairs, find a new salon. While you get massaged by the chair, your feet and legs get massaged and pampered by another person; all the grime and grit is removed from your toes (ick!), and you leave with pretty, pink toes feeling revived and refreshed.
But wait. One of the best things about a pedicure is getting to show off your pedicure during the Spring and Summer in pretty, open-toed shoes... right?! Pretty flip-flops or sandals, preferably. One might even ask - why even bother with a pedicure in winter? In the winter (unless you live in year-round summer type places), you get your lovely pedicure just to cover it up with socks and boots. Nobody sees it. What a bummer.
Transition to my life. As a new wife (of 5 1/2 years) and mother (of a 2 1/2-year-old beautiful girl and 10-month-old simply adorable boy), this is sometimes how I feel - like I have a "pedicure" (all these lovely little things I used to enjoy like poetry and writing and painting and making collages and pottery) that get covered up and pushed aside by daily life. Understand that my priorities have changed; I have other needs that occupy my time (read: changing diapers, playing with play-doh, grocery shopping, giving baths, paying bills - the usual!). And I love those needs! I love my family with every bit of my heart! Don't misunderstand me: my kids and my husband and family are my life.
On the other hand, I really miss my creative self. Not that I was every very good or professional at any of my creative endeavors, but they made me *feel better*. By returning to them and doing a better job at integrating creativity into my everyday life, I feel I will be a better wife and mother and, bonus, happier with myself!
Friends, I have gotten lost in the "Why Get a Pedicure in Winter?" mistake. Just like there are perfectly wonderful reasons to get a pedicure in the winter (
Reasons to Get a Pedicure in Winter), there are wonderful, great, awesome reasons why I - as a full-time mother and wife (at least this one!) - need to find creative outlets and let my 'pink toes' shine. I need to return closer to a feeling of 'self' and 'centeredness,' and I have several goals to get me back to the enjoyment and fulfillment I once felt (on occasion any way) from expressing creativity. Yes I am busy. I am a mom and wife trying my best to raise two kids and be a good partner and responsible adult and upstanding citizen. But I dream of making the most of my time on this planet; we all only live once unless reincarnation turns out to be real.
I've read that the best way to accomlish goals is to begin by writing them down (
How To Accomplish Your Goals in Life). So here we go. I will hold myself accountable through this Blog.
1. To do a weekly art craft with my children. (This is my 'low hanging fruit'!)
2. To make a quilt from fabric I brought home from Africa that I've had for 10 years, within 2 years
3. To write and publish a children's book or other e-book during the coming year.
4. To compile and publish a book of poetry during the coming 2 years.
5. To write and publish a book based on my Peace Corps experience within 5 years.
I look forward to gaining readers on my journey who will hold me accountable.... and I am excited to hear your thoughts, opinions, comments and hope to have a lot of fun along the way!